life is like a game of mahjong- if fate deals you a lousy set,
you have to do something about it.
either you live with your lousy set and make the best out of it,
or you do something about it and dump the tiles you don't want.
either way, you don't go whining to the rest of the table about how crappy that set is.
for my case, i chose to dump the unworthy tile(s).
and i think...no, i definitely made the correct decision.