sure it sounds fine and dandy,
and they say it's not a bad situation to be in;
circumstances many would quite enjoy
and be flattered to be in.

and it is,
for most parts of it.

especially so if you are, like me,
constantly seeking affirmation
to validate your sense of self-worth.

but there are moments of wistfulness,
that craves for an anchor to ground you -
which is to stop "saidah-ing" me around.
i'm no super woman you know.
however, i thank you for thinking that i'm one.
take the effort of finding out and doing it yourself
instead of "saidah-ing" me.

i love to help but there are times
you've GOT TO TRY & MAKE THE EFFORT.
because most of the time,
MY effort becomes a recognition of YOUR invinsible "effort".