Interesting Thought Of The Day: If money cannot buy you happiness, how come a happy meal costs $3.95?
Love Actually
Ive been seeing alot of couples lately. Couples making out at my void deck, couples quarrelling, couples hugging. Hell, it all looked like pornography brought before my eyes. Disturbing? Yes. Very. You dun realli need to buy dose cheap porn vcds now to watch porn. Look around and you'll bound to see loads. Free show, i must say.
But seeing all dese people in love, i feel good that humans have not lost the ability to emotionally invest among one another.
It's hard for me to fall in love with anyone - my independence has ensured that. It's also hard for anyone to fall in love with me - my face and unwillingness to open up to people has ensured that.
I may not know much about love, but I know one thing about heterosexual relationships: being in one is like studying history. At first it seems interesting, full of events. You can remember all the dates. And you bullshit a lot. After a while, it gets tedious and boring. Full of wars that spice things up (at times), but make things all the more intolerable. You don't care about the dates anymore. The subject seems to get thicker and fatter by the day, and all the content go to the wrong places. Some relationships I know are in this stage, but I only have one thing to say to the gurl: If you really love him, hang in there.
but then again, hanging in dere and watching him hurt you might not be the best thing to do at that point of time ryte? ryte.
Guys may also cheat at one point of time or another. Some guys in relationships find themselves being hit on by other women. Sure it's a nice feeling and all but know this, guys: those women like you because of your girlfriend. That woman got you a haircut to suit your ugly ass face, made you stop scratching your crotch in public, made you a gentleman and revived your long dead fashion sense. Isn't loyalty a small price to pay in tribute to the woman who made your life so much richer, and who made you so much a better person? Sure you're gay as hell, listening to Westlife or emo bands and writing poems about how she intices you like the tides to the moon, and single people may just go up to your face and say, "Hey Elton!". But relax, those guys are too ugly and too single to even measure up to you. Probably the kinda guys who spend their lives fantasizing over their cousins.
Whatever it is, don't cheat. You cheating is a passport for her to manipulate things and find faults in you. We wouldn't want that now would we? [insert sheepish grin here]
Some guys may stop spending as much time with their girlfriends as before when the couplehood reaches a trough. I say this is perfectly healthy as compared to getting moody or beating up your girlfriend. Sure in this day and age, hardly anybody does it (physically abusing their significant others). But some guys do so to remind the girl who's boss. Guys, if you're among the few who do so, stop it. It only shows that you have no other more civilized methods of holding her respect.
Nobody wants to break up with their boy/girlfriends. It's emotionally draining, and you do stupid things. Guys are gonna go to clubs and try to pick up girls with dumbass pick-up lines like, "Hey nice dress. It'd look better on the floor of my friend's garden cos I have no muny to go home and the fella's gonna drive me there but keep me outside cos I'm pissed drunk and may vomit anytime though." Or something that'd put those words through a girl's head. Girls, on the other hand, would watch re-runs of Sex And The City and pig out on ice-cream. We wouldn't want to be fat unlike Sarah Jessica Parker now would we? Either way, it's not pretty.
If you love the person, hold on for as long as it is meant to last and enjoy every moment of it. We can always tell if we love somebody or not. Someone who you have to figure out whether you love or not is probably just very cute.
As I tell my friends, Love is the number one proof that there is a God.
[i decided to re-post this entry. =) ]